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Our Top 10 Tips for a Red-Hot Marriage
01
Pursue Each Other Like You’re Still Dating
Don’t let familiarity breed complacency. Flirt, surprise each other, plan date nights, and stay curious about one another.
02
Pray Together Daily
Couples who pray together stay together. Prayer brings unity, peace, and reminds you that your marriage has a higher purpose.
03
Speak Their Love Language Often
Don’t guess—ask! Then intentionally give love in the way your spouse receives it best (words, time, touch, gifts, or service).
04
Protect Your Time Like Your Marriage
Depends on It—Because It Does
Distractions destroy intimacy. Schedule regular, distraction-free time to connect emotionally and physically.
05
Fight Fair & Forgive Fast
You will have disagreements. The key is to handle conflict with humility, never attack character, and always aim for resolution—not victory.
06
Keep the Bedroom Sacred and Spicy
Don’t let physical intimacy become an afterthought. It’s a powerful glue in marriage. Communicate, initiate, and prioritize it.
07
Speak Life—Not Just Logistics
Don’t let your conversations revolve only around chores, kids, and to-dos. Speak encouragement, appreciation, and dreams into each other.
08
Keep the Bedroom Sacred and Spicy
Don’t let physical intimacy become an afterthought. It’s a powerful glue in marriage. Communicate, initiate, and prioritize it.
09
Serve Each Other Selflessly
Give 100% regardless of what you get in return. A 50-50 mindset does not create read hot marriages. Love thrives when you outdo one another in service. Ask, “What can I do to bless you today?” and follow through.
10
Never Stop Growing
Your marriage will only grow as much as you do. Read books, go to events, listen to podcasts—invest in becoming the best version of you.
Bonus Reflection:
Which of these 10 tips do we need to prioritize this week? Write it down. Talk about it. Pray about it. Then take action—together.
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